Sunday, October 14, 2007

A stupid Swedish proverb

A Swedish proverb says: ‘Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it.’ Feels touchy, doesn’t it?

Ever helped a person who justified it the least? You remember doing such a kind act in recent time? Months or Years? The Swedish quote sounds touchy but there is something wrong with it.

Everyday our actions decide what we deserve: headache or peace. We need so many things in life: money, friends, love, affection, beer, status, car, sex, etc etc. All of us keep trying for all these small n big pleasures in life. Out of all of us, some people get things quite merrily while, others don’t get them. Then there is a bunch of people who get all these pleasures but they are not happy. They are scared to lose them. For example sometimes they get very good friends, but the friendship doesn’t last long. Though they need the friends, friends walk away or ignore. Then this bunch spends money to get new friends, but they don’t find the happiness. Simply because even if this bunch needs good things in life; they don’t deserve them.


Things that you want, you can ask n get. Things that you really really want, you have to earn them. There is a phase in life when we keep screaming and asking for the things that we need. We keep spending time for something we need really badly. But do we deserve it? No one will you pay for a life time if you need but you will get paid when you deserve. No one will give you a hand for a lifetime when you need but you will never be lonely when you deserve the hand. Better learn to deserve things; because people or pleasures certainly hate to give someone a hug when he deserve it the least. And for those who deserve good things, life is a cake walk.

(After all this logic I really think it’s nothing but a stupid Swedish proverb.)

2 comments:

Unknown said...

I strongly agree with you..but there is one issue that I have always had. Sometimes you do deserve things and then when you don't get it...it's frustrating...try answering this..

SD said...

yeah its frustrating man! will you call it absence of luck? you might as well read the post on 'luck' hope you find it rational